like the flowing river

be like the flowing river.
silent in the night.
be not afraid of the dark.
if there are stars in the sky,
reflect them back.
if there are clouds in the sky,
remember, clouds, like the river, are water.
so, gladly reflect them too,
in your own tranquil depths.

~manuel bandeira

Friday, April 24, 2009

what's wrong with a short pant?

I finally got my Driving License yesterday! finally! i just couldn't wait to have it so that I wouldn't be with my driver if I wanted to go somewhere; I can drive by myself! XD

I went to the police office early in the morning. I had arrived there at around 6.30 am. And I was so sleepy I slept for nearly 2 hour there until someone woke me up to wait in the office - with other people who wanted to make the license or extend it.

it was quiet boring waiting there. I just sat, crossed my left leg onto the other one. At that time, I wore a sleeved-shirt and a short pant because my knee was wounded after last soccer match. If I wore a trouser, it would have been very painful. After 30 minutes waiting, the police finally called the applicants name, including me. So, I got up and went to the room where I did the test and had a seat. I sat quietly until a policeman called my name abruptly.

He said to me angrily: "Hey! Why are you not wearing a trouser?! Why are you wearing a short pant?!"
I was surprised and answered: "My knee is wounded, Sir! It will be very painful if I wear a trouser!"
His anger got worse: "It's your business! Can't you learn to be polite in dressing up?! What if you are leading a company in the future, wearing that kind of pant! Get out until you wear a trouser!"

I could do nothing. So, I got up and tried to find a trouser.

What made me thinking was this line:
What if you are leading a company in the future, wearing that kind of pant!

Is it wrong leading a company wearing a short pant?

I have an uncle. Well, he's actually not my uncle. He is a very best friend of my dad. Our family is so close that we consider each other as relatives. His name is Robert. He worked for a man, a big boss handling five-stars hotels. We called him Ko Ketung. Ko Ketung is the man who built Ritz Carlton and Conrad in Bali and he had just finished with his last project: Hilton Bandung.

For me, Ko Ketung was a leader I dreamed of. Why? Could you imagine, a big boss, wearing a simple short pant and T-Shirt with a souvenir bag of a local airline and a sandal to meet a big boss of a national television station? And when got home from the meeting he use a taxi instead of a luxurious car? His home is also so humble. His sofa is so ordinary, even it is patched with a cellophane tape.

So, why should we lead a company with a sleeved-shirt, a tie and a trouser? A leader doesn't have to be that exclusive. Even a simple leader who humble his self will be a better leader because he will have a better and stronger relationship with his employees. And the company will also have a strong solidarity.

An exclusivity is what make a distance between a leader and his people. That's why classes in the society hard to be erased: because the person with a higher status makes himself exclusive.

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