like the flowing river

be like the flowing river.
silent in the night.
be not afraid of the dark.
if there are stars in the sky,
reflect them back.
if there are clouds in the sky,
remember, clouds, like the river, are water.
so, gladly reflect them too,
in your own tranquil depths.

~manuel bandeira

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

does swear still have any meaning?

my friends frequently say this: "I swear! I really don't like it!" or "It really is hot! I swear!" and there are lots of other swears.

i am just wondering, why is so easy to swear? does swear have no more meaning?

in my 17 year life, i have just said "swear" for 2 times. the first is when i was still so small, and i swore to my mom, then she taught me for the first time about swearing. since then, i never said that word in ease. the second time was when i was playing soccer and my friend convicted me that i made a hand-ball. i was so sure that i didn't do it i said: i swear the ball didn't couch my hand! and i think that's the last time i swore.

my parents and other older generations (40s-year-old-people), most of them, teach me not to be too easy to swear. why? they say, and i do very agree of it: swear means promising with your whole soul to people that your words are true and none a little of it is untrue. it means that it is sooo damn true or 1000% true.

the freedictionary.com also says: swear means to make solemn declaration, invoking a deity or a sacred person or thing, in confirmation of and witness to the honestly or truth of such a declaration. swear can also means to curse.

we can see how deep a swear is, much much deeper than a promise.

nowadays, because people swear easily, i didn't really trust people when they say "i swear". they even lying using "i swear"!!

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